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Please Help, I don’t know what to do, My mom doesn’t approve of my girlfriend?





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Okay, so I'm a fourteen year old girl and I need some advice. I've been with my girlfriend for over two months now (yes, I am bisexual) and we are very close. She spent the night one time (IT WAS INNOCENT) and we were wrestling (like we do often) and I ended up on top of her, pinning down her arms, on my bed. My mother walked in and I jumped ten feet in the air. We weren't doing anything (my mother doesn't know we're dating, but doubts my straightness...she thinks gays should burn in hell....there's a reason I don't tell her anything...), but it looked really bad :/ This was a week ago. Today I asked her if I could go to my girlfriend's house for TWO HOURS to help her with her History essay because history is not her best subject. Surprise, surprise, she said no. I have a feeling I won't be allowed over there by my mother and she won't allow my girlfriend over here. We go to the same school and everything, but I just don't get why my mother doesn't like my girlfriend. I understand where she's coming from. There is no age gap whatsoever. The only difference between my girlfriend and I is that she is completely lesbian. Any help would be greatly appreciated.



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2 Responses so far.

  1. Plusiinae says:

    Well, you have to admit you did this to yourself. It truly does not matter whether you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend, the point is that at fourteen you are much too young to be sexually active, and you should not be sleeping with your crush or wrestling on the bed.Now you are going to have to learn how to behave yourself and earn your mom’s trust again.Additional Details: I never said you WERE sexually active, however what you WERE doing is setting yourself up for trouble and playing with fire. No matter what your intentions, the two of you have no business wresting in your bedroom or sleeping together. And yes, the horsing around you say you do OFTEN is inappropriate behavior.I have no issue at all with your relationship choices once you are older, say eighteen. Your mom will have to deal with that, but she is not asking my advice.

  2. bibliopolistic says:

    get a fake boy friend to trick your mom